Odang Faith Enotse

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A man can be obsessed with you and still not love you.

A man can be in your twenty-three hours each day and still not think of you as a wife fit for him.

A man can introduce you to his friends and family and still agree with them all that you are not the one.

A man can even engage you and still not have plans to marry you at all.

A man can also plan a lavish wedding with you and still disappear, to low key marry a faceless stranger, somewhere.

Sometimes, it has nothing to do with you at all.

Sometimes it has everything to do with him and the indoctrinations that have been planted in him by people he respects.

Sometimes, it has everything to do with his bleeding wounds, unresolved histories and trauma bond

Sometimes, it could be God saving you from a human accident.

This generation can waste your time and still call you names later.

This generation isn't as faithful as our Fathers' and Mothers'

This generation can share all their deepest secrets and vulnerabilities with you and still turn around to marry a clueless, bitter, pretty stranger, with whom they have never discussed jack.

This generation can agree with, and like all your posts and pictures everywhere on social media, and still run off to marry another whom they aren't even friends with on social media.

This generation can love you in your Dm and be ashamed to identify with you publicly on a global domain.

This generation can type 'More Grace' while you are a nobody and still fight, castigate, hate and even murder you when the Grace actually becomes More.

This generation wants lasting marriages and relationships but with the wrong manual and strategies.

This generation does more than they actually say or mean.

If he or she is becoming obsessed with you already, please, do not foolishly swim in that uncertainty

The heart of man is desperately wicked and none can know it except by principles and discernment.

Therefore, apply the principle of asking and get a very clear answer, because time can either be wasted or spent.

Do not let anyone born of a woman use you to wait for who they actually need

Move on as fast as you find out and never let anyone rent you while they build their own nest.

Run off once you find out.

You are too valuable for time wasters.

This post resonates to both sexes.

Save your time and spend it with that one healthy person who needs you as much as you need him or her.

Life is deeper than butterflies and wicked obsession.

LUST is SCARY and EXPENSIVE

But God is LOVE!

Choose the latter and allow Jesus fix what you can't fix.

By: Nana Esaaba

Saw a video where someone called using a washing machine a sin, claiming the clothes need to be hand washed for the wife to get the blessing attached.

Imagine how many young men may have gone home with that mindset.

Life is already challenging enough as it is, use whatever means and tool available to you to make is easier.

- Having a maid to help out doesn't mean you won't teach your children.
- Pepper grounded with a blender is not less effective and delicious.
- Where schedule is a challenge, frozen food to be microwaved on the go helps a lot.
- Washing machine is no longer a luxury.

The list is endless.

Gone are the days where marriage required skills such as the ability to pound with mortar and pestle, make vegetable soup and sweep a whole compound. Now, the values sought are deeper; intelligence, enlightenment, leadership, goal orientation, life goal, entrepreneurship, versatility, financial stability and general coordination are more likely to get you married and keep you married. While in the marriage, these are also more likely to make life easier for you.

Why sweep a whole compound and wash a mountain of clothes at the same time as cooking at the same time as sweeping and doing several other things without expecting to get lost?

Why do all when there are given ways to make it easier?

It is true that realities differ but the hard way is not the only way, the hard way is not the smart way. Irony: the hard way is not even always the cheapest way. Seeking easier routes to life does not make you lazy, it doesn't make you less of a wife, and it doesn't make you less responsible as a person.

This is where many refer to mothers wrong, forgetting even they, at different points had help in the form of maids, nieces and family from the village. If they had more, they would embrace it and be happier.

Yes, sometimes these things need financial backing which we may not have so we go back to analogue ways as we strive to get better. This is absolutely fine but don't get it twisted, a smart head is what super wives are made of, not a suffer head.

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If your relationship just started, please keep it low-key.

If your relationship hasn’t stood the test of time, please keep it low-key.

If your relationship has faced no real challenges, stay quiet and nurture it carefully.

If your relationship didn’t break down when tested, hold your peace and let God fight for you.

The disappointment and nonsense we see here is alarming.

Listen, the beginning of a relationship is always risky and delicate.

It’s like the rainy season; you won’t see the true nature of your partner until the sun and harmattan come.

When it rains, everything seems perfect. People stay home, act their best, and avoid distractions. They want to keep warm, so they behave nicely, care for you, pamper you, and even engage in intimacy, making you feel special.

Wait until the sun shines to reveal their true character.

Wait until harmattan comes to test their endurance, character, finances, time, and attention.

Anyone who can endure these trials with you is worth celebrating.

Appreciate them for being by your side, with you, and for you, until you can stand strong together.

Don’t rush to Facebook to boast because your new date bought you gifts and is currently attentive.

HOLD ON just a little—you might find a reason not to embarrass yourself.

Have a conviction before making public declarations.

Discuss to learn the right things about them and life.

Sometimes provoke them to see their reactions, observe them closely, see if their love isn’t seasonal.

Open your eyes to see if they meet your standards, that’s for those who care.

Your posts will definitely be used against you.Many of you suffer in your relationships because your current partner mocks the words you used for your ex.You come here and tell us he’s your treasure, choice, desire, the man after your heart.

Now that he’s gone, your current date feels your heart is no more, so he plays with your mind and destroys your body.

You wonder why some celebrities you admire don’t declare their relationships until they surprise you with pre-wedding photos.

Some don’t like public declarations, and that’s okay. But some aren’t prepared for the drama.

Some of you are good at posting about people who don’t even see what you see. It’s just you involved 🤣🤣

You haven’t experienced anything yet—only credit alerts. You’ve not gone through serious misunderstandings and come out with your peace intact, yet you’re already flaunting things to impress others. Definitely not me.

You are the ones making relationships difficult.

Stop thinking relationships are about show, shawarma, pizza, clubbing on Friday nights, and posting on Facebook.

Build capacity and seek the kingdom pattern of relationships, and every other thing will be added unto you.

But for now, REST.

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