04/30/2026
Student testimony: I lost my son over 16 years ago, my dad 9 years ago, and my mother and husband 2 years ago. My mom and husband died seven months apart.
Through each loss, I heard so many well-intended but unhelpful sayings. I also received deep wounds from people I thought were close friends. These experiences left me
angry and in tears, and I often withdrew into isolation. After I suddenly lost my dear
husband, within the first month, I heard comments such as:
Do you plan on getting married again?
You should celebrate that he’s in heaven.
Can you fix my grandson’s car?
Can you give me just this or that?
His mission is done.
You’re spiritually stuck.
These misunderstandings about loss and grief—especially within the body of believers—led me to become a loss and grief counselor.
The Spirit led me to the National Association of Christian Counselors. The certification course was led by Dr. Kirk, and the atmosphere felt as though the glory of God was hovering over us. It was a place where everyone felt heard and seen. Dr. Kirk’s passion and compassion for others were evident in every session. As I learned how to correctly counsel and comfort those who are grieving, I also received comfort and healing along the way.
I’m truly grateful for this training, and I would definitely recommend it to anyone.