The Oral History Practice

Most families wait too long to ask the questions that really matter.

Not because they do not care.

Because they do not know where to start.

Before you sit down with your dad, mom, grandparent, or another loved one to ask family history questions, remember this:

Start with one question.

Do not try to get their whole life story in one sitting. Let the conversation breathe.

Ask permission to record.

Audio is enough. Video is even better, because expression matters. A smile, a pause, or the way someone looks down before answering can carry as much meaning as the answer itself.

Listen for sensory details.

If they say, “We used to visit my grandmother,” ask, “What did her house smell like?”

If they say, “My father worked hard,” ask, “What do you remember seeing him do after work?”

That is how people move from simply reporting facts to actually remembering.

And do not correct too quickly.

You can verify names and dates later. But in the moment, your role is not to win a fact-checking contest.

Your role is to preserve meaning.

Finally, save the recording in more than one place.

Computer. Cloud storage. A trusted family member.

Because if there is only one copy, it is not really preserved. It is just temporarily lucky.

With Father’s Day coming up, this is a meaningful way to honor your dad or grandfather while you still can.

If you want help getting started, comment **STARTER KIT** and I’ll send you the Family Interview Starter Kit.

For Father’s Day, I’m also including the **Father’s Day Legacy Worksheet** as a free bonus.

It gives you meaningful questions to ask, simple follow-ups, and a practical way to begin saving his stories.

Because one day, his voice may be the gift your family is most grateful you preserved.

New video is live.

Before you sit down to interview a parent, grandparent, or loved one, create a simple family story map.

It helps you identify the people, places, turning points, traditions, and wisdom worth preserving before those memories fade.

Before you press record, make the map.

A family story map helps you see who to interview, what memories matter most, and which parts of your legacy should not be left to chance.

My newest video is love right now:
Family History Research: Create a story Map Before Your First Interview

7 questions you can ask tonight to preserve your family's stories before they're gone. These aren't dates and facts — they're the questions that unlock real memories.

🎙️ Full video is LIVE with all 7 questions.

It's in the comments 👇

Which one is your favorite and what response did you get? Leave it in the comments.

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Some family stories are worth preserving before it's too late — and this is one of them. 🥹

I sat down with a teacher who genuinely became a teacher by someone who influenced her career, her answer stopped everything.

She followed her student from 6th grade all the way to high school. That's not just an influential teacher story — that's a life story worth saving.

These are the kinds of oral history moments we almost never think to document until the chance is gone. Recording your family history doesn't have to be complicated — it just has to happen.

If you want to capture memories like this in your own family — interviews with parents, grandparents, or the teachers who made a difference — comment "Family interview" below.

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Most families think family history means names, dates, records, and a family tree.

But a family tree can tell you who existed.

It cannot always tell you who they were.

That’s why I created **Build Your Family Story Archive** — a practical video playlist for busy families who want to preserve the stories, voices, memories, and wisdom behind the family tree.

You’ll learn how to start, who to interview first, how to record family stories without expensive equipment, how to organize what you capture, and how to begin with a simple one-weekend plan.

You do not need to finish everything.

You just need to start something real.

Watch the playlist here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuZGloNmv0syBNc7vDW5JyGzN3glZMISc

Because your family history is not just behind you.

It is something you pass forward.

A new video is out today about something easy to overlook until it matters deeply: teaching kids how to interview their parents.

What begins as a simple exercise becomes a reminder that the questions children ask today may one day become the stories a family treasures most.

Watch now, and maybe let it spark a conversation at home tonight.

What questions do you think your children will ask?

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🎉 New video is live👉https://youtu.be/Bp5N6_OHTnE?si=2Y2UDTfXV_VamVbe

I had the opportunity to visit a 3rd grade classroom and teach students how to develop interview questions, listen closely to the answers, and capture meaningful stories using nothing more than a smartphone.

They learned how to ask thoughtful questions, follow someone’s story, and understand that preserving family history doesn’t have to be complicated.

This is something every family can do — parents, grandparents, kids, and loved ones all have stories worth saving.

Watch the video and see how their questions did.